Tuesday, November 28, 2006
An Embarrassment of Riches
A classmate of Jae Cheol's who is a Burmese refugee has kept in contact with the reception house and they call him anytime there is a new arrival from Burma. Last night he came to our house with a new arrival who had been in Canada for 40 days. Apparently he and 19 members of his family came to Canada after living in a refugee camp on the Thai border for over 10 years. He is 27 years old and is married with three little kids. We were able to give him some kitchen things and a tv.
When they left, I cried. It was the most humbling experience of my life. I wanted to do more. I have never felt so guilty in my life about the privileges that I was born to. I have never been hungry. I have never had to fear for my safety or that of my family. I have never had to flee from my home. I don't know exactly what this family has been through, I only know that they were very happy to take what we could give them, however embarrassingly meager, mismatched and used they were.
I heard a radio program about two women in Ottawa who pick up gently used furniture and distribute it to newly arrived immigrants. They make pickups every Wednesday night by appointment. They can be contacted via email at helpingwithfurniture(at)hotmail.com. If you live in Ottawa, maybe you'll one day be in a position to contact these ladies and donate something.
Saturday, November 25, 2006
Well, finally. I chose a job with a school owned by an American man and his Korean wife. It sounds really exciting and I think I'll probably be able to be really creative in my classes. It also sounds like it's going to be a lot of work. The thing is though, that doesn't bother me. I'm excited about it. I'm going to be in cut and paste HEAVEN!!!!!! Crafternoon, anyone? I already have plans for a Christmas craft day before the Christmas long weekend. Jet lag, schmet-schmag, let me at the students!!!!!!!! I will be singing a totally different tune in a couple of months, naturally, but for the moment, I'm so excited!
Friday, November 17, 2006
Ai-go (for lack of an appropriate swear word)
I AM going to have to do everything myself, as usual. What I've decided to do, is get an F2 or spouse visa to avoid stupidity. Well, that's a great idea in theory, but now the problem is finding the information on what's required for an F2 visa. I don't think anyone knows! It's not available anywhere.
Now, I know what you're thinking; the information must be there in Korean and you just can't find it Melanie, because you don't speak Korean. HA! If only it was as simple as that.
I asked Jae Cheol to call the embassy to get the information. They told him they would call back in 20 minutes. After 30 minutes went by with no call, he called them to ask. He was told to call back in another 30 minutes! When he finally spoke to someone who seemed to have some sort of clue, he didn't seem to sure of himself. Jae Cheol would ask if pictures were required, for example and the guy would say something like, "oh yes, you're right, you should bring pictures". This happened more than once. Apparently I also need a bank statement and a record of employment! Yeah, cause that's relevant as to whether or not I'm married to a Korean!
As a result of all this lunacy, I bought a giant bottle of stress formula B vitamins last night. I don't know if they're going to do the trick though, when you're dealing with people like the genius that called last night at midnight!!!!!! "Tell her to check her email" was the message he left with poor sleeping Ji Hye, who lives in the living room. The only problem is, HE DIDN'T SEND ONE! Come on, people!!!! Let's get it together! We can do this!
Tonight I'm going to stop by the LCBO, pick up some lovely dark rum, have a sleep-over at Theresa and Josh's house and all will be right by morning. *sigh*
Thursday, November 16, 2006
Dreaming of blue skies
It hasn't stopped raining in Ottawa in about a thousand years. It's really beginning to get on my nerves, as well as into my shoes. It's getting to the point where I don't even remember what a sunny, blue sky looks like. Once, last week on a morning when it wasn't raining, I went outside and felt like something strange was happening. It took me a while to realise that the strange thing was the absence of rain.
Job search continues, as does stress.
What was I thinking?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I think this whole fiasco is going to end up shortening my lifespan somewhat. Look at Snoopy, (my little brother named him when he was ten, okay?) Snoops is 14 or so, and he looks fantastic. I think his secret must be that he's never really even left the house.
I HATE moving!
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Golden Boy
Have you ever met anyone who seems to do things effortlessly? You know the person that I'm talking about, the one who can wear white shirts for longer than 4 minutes without spilling stuff on them. The one who looks cute in hats. The one who people make special exceptions for, even when they shouldn't. Well, I am married to that person! I love him, but I'm jealous as hell!
I have sort of a superiority complex. I can't help it, I'm the oldest child. Since birth, I have always secretly enjoyed being the smartest, the tallest, the strongest, etc. And it has always galled me when I'm not. In those situations, I would be forced to snap out of my lethargy and make an effort in order to compete. No fun, you say? Well, you're right, but these things usually pass. Then I met Jae Cheol.
He's clever, he's smart, he's open minded and he's inquisitive. In my family, we love learning and figuring things out and finding solutions. It's what we do. Since we've been in Canada, Jae Cheol's had the chance to spend lots of time with my family and he really fits in well. Now he's turned into a superstar.
I'll give you an example:
Kids - I don't have any of my own but I see 'em everywhere
This picture is a few months old. When I finally see him next month in Korea, I expect he will be wearing tweed, smoking a pipe and walking around with his hands clasped behind his back. I can't wait to see him again because I think that I'll really enjoy being an aunt.
There's another baby on the scene these days, who I haven't even had the chance to meet yet. Her name is Hayden Violet Lee and apparently she is "the perfectest" baby on the planet. I'm thinking of setting her up with Dong Jun. I'm trying to steal pictures from Melissa's blog, but I don't know how so you're going to have to go there to see her. She really is sweet, I can't believe how cute she is. It almost makes me want to have a baby, almost.
This is Melissa's blog http://www.koreangoldfish.blogspot.com/ I love at it about four times a day because she's so pretty and because I'm at work and I can.
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
The calm before the land of the morning calm
Well, here we go again! Korea, or as I lovingly used to refer to it; the land that logic forgot!
I got an email today from my potential employer saying that they're going to pay me more since I won't be living in the housing that they provide. WHOA EVERYBODY!!!!! SLOW DOWN JUST A MINUTE! That's not what I said. I said that since I'm arriving at least two weeks earlier than when my contract would begin, I'll be able to stay with family for that amount of time. That's what I said!
Let's get a few things clear here: we won't in fact be staying with the fam at all, for the simple reason that it will make Jae Cheol loose his mind! Love the fam, love them a lot - CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM! Especially since we've been hosting a cousin since August. We need time to ourselves and also a place we can designate as a pants-free environment.
Desk jobs make me crazy!
There you have it. I am officially looking forward to going back to the surreal world of teaching English in Korea. Sigh, I remember last year while in the midst of packing, teaching, moving and planning, all I could think of was a nice, cushy desk job that gave me lots of time to just sit around. I thought that would be the best! You know, kinda related to sitting on the couch all day except you've got to shower, dress nicely and sit up-right. Well boy was I an idiot! Now all I'm dreaming of is facing down a class full of hyper 10 year-olds who haven't done their homework. I CAN'T WAIT!
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Ottawa Food and Wine Show
My brother Luke came to visit us in Ottawa for the weekend and we went to the Ottawa Wine and Food Show. Lemme tell you, good times were had by me! Due to not paying attention, I invited people who couldn't come on the same days as each other. Well, naturally, the only solution was for me to go twice, once with each group of friends! (I've always been good at math!)
The food was good, but kinda overpriced. The drinks, however, yum yum.